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Personal Description
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It may say "I am transgender, and proud enough to let you know that's what I am.Deep in my heart, though, it says "Isn't this pretty?" or "Ain't I cool!" The issue is not really one of what clothing i choose to wear upon , however, nor of the gender role i adopt -- I mean c'mon, God "could care less," -- but of how i have been taught to feel about it. Objectively, then, it must be as "right" for me to express myself in one gender presentation as in another.
In our culture, we are all brought up to believe that there are only two gender presentations allowed to us, and that they are inextricably tied to the genetic sex into which we are born. We come into this world as either "little boys" or "little girls" and are expected to live the rest of our lives in strict accordance to the narrowly defined gender roles that society has "#%!igned" to each sex. This is fine, in theory, were it not for the reality that for some of us it just doesn't work.
In my own life, though I was born male, I never did feel like a man. I've always felt more comfortable around women than I have around men, and have always had a strong need for feminine expression. Somehow femininity seemed more natural to me; it was masculinity that I had to "learn", and which always seemed forced.
I have always had a deep appreciation of spirituality and reverence for God, which has deepened in recent years with my study of A Course In Miracles. I feel, also, that there is a connection between my spiritual faith and my gender journey. Though initially identifying as a transvestite and briefly going through a stage when I wondered if I was becoming transsexual, I now realize that I was born into the body that I have for a purpose: to accept and integrate the male and the female within myself and to be a teacher and learner concerning inner balance.
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Partner's Description
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I look out for a girl who can be mine this lifetime.
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My Personal Questions
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| On my first date I would like to have -
Intimate Togetherness
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| My favourite season is - Summer |
| I fill my spare time with - Listening to Music |
| I dislike Someone who plays a trick on you most |
| My opinion about having pets - I would like to have one |
| I am known as - Creative |
| My favourite sport is - Cricket |
| If I get a chance to tame a wild animal I would choose - No answer |
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